Hello friend,
Today is the first day of fall. The light is changing. Mornings start a little darker, the camp gear is packed away, and the calendar is filling up again. Many of us feel this season in our sleep, mood, and energy before we can put words to it.
So let me ask: how are you adjusting? I hope something here helps you through this seasonal shift.
How shorter days affect sleep, mood, and energy
By December the Twin Cities have almost 7 fewer hours of daylight than in June.
SleepLight sets your body clock. With less of it, mornings can feel heavier.
MoodAbout 1 in 10 people in northern states feel a seasonal low.
EnergySleeping longer and wanting to stay in are common fall signals.
Sunset moves to about 5:00 p.m. Plan for daylight in the morning and at midday.
Easing into the school year
of parents say back-to-school season brings stress or anxiety. If you feel it too, most parents are right there with you.
Adjust bedtime and morning routines 15 minutes earlier each day.
| Ages 6 to 12 | 9 to 12 hours |
| Ages 13 to 17 | 8 to 10 hours |
| Adults | 7 or more hours |
- Screens off 30 to 60 minutes before bed.
- Family meals three times a week. Breakfast counts.
- Caring for others too? Your rest belongs in the plan.
Four small anchors for a grounded day
Each one takes ten minutes or less. Tap the one you will start with.
Your anchor this season:
Tell me which one you chose. I would love to cheer you on.
Send it to RohinieOne season, one habit
A new habit takes about 66 days, on average, to feel automatic, and a missed day leaves your progress in place. Start one anchor this week and let the season carry it.
Sept 22First day of fallStart one anchor
Nov 1Clocks fall backKeep going
Nov 27About 66 daysIt starts to feel natural
Dec 21Longest nightDaylight begins to return
Your check-in this week
Three questions, in the rhythm of my Nurturing Strategies Framework™.
DETECTWhat is shifting for you this season, in your body, your home, or your work?
ALIGNWhat do you most want to protect in the weeks ahead: your rest, your time, or your energy?
APPLYWhich of the four anchors will you start this week?
Be gentle with yourself
Seasonal dips are common. If low mood stays for days, or the things that usually bring you joy start to feel heavy, please talk with your healthcare provider. In a crisis, call or text 988 any time.
I would love to hear which anchor you choose. Write to me anytime.
With warmth,Rohinie
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Sources: American Academy of Sleep Medicine; Mayo Clinic; National Institute of Mental Health; American Psychiatric Association; University of Minnesota; CDC; American Academy of Pediatrics; Harris Poll for Understood.org (2023); Ohio State University (2024); PLOS ONE (2022); Cornell University (2020); einstein (2023); Lally et al. (2010); Holt-Lunstad et al., PLOS Medicine (2010). Daylight figures calculated for Minneapolis. General wellness information; your healthcare provider is your guide for medical care.